The Power of Accountability: A Must-Read for Men Seeking Real Change
I’ve been diving into several books by Dr. Mark R. Laaser lately, and one that I highly recommend for men is The 7 Principles of Highly Accountable Men. This book isn’t just about discipline; it’s about transformation. I’ve started using these principles as a relationship-building tool with other men, and I can tell you firsthand—it makes a difference.
Why Accountability Matters
Good advice is hard to find. True accountability is even harder. As men, we often struggle to admit fault, defeat, or weakness. But the reality is, we need each other. Studies show that accountability increases the likelihood of achieving goals by up to 95% (American Society of Training and Development). When we walk alone, we often stumble. But with the right support, we grow stronger.
In The 7 Principles of Highly Accountable Men, Laaser tackles an issue that many of us deal with but rarely talk about—shame. He writes, “Shame leads many of us to believe that not even God can love us. But shame, in a healthy way, can remind us that we need God in our lives.” This book is based on Scripture and the traditional twelve-step approach to personal change, emphasizing that transformation is a process—sometimes a lifelong one.
Real Accountability Requires Real Relationships
If you’ve ever struggled to find a real friend—someone who calls you to a higher standard and keeps you accountable—this book is for you. Men who build strong accountability networks report higher levels of mental resilience and relational success. A Harvard Study on Adult Development found that meaningful relationships are the number one predictor of long-term happiness and well-being. Yet too many of us go through life isolated, believing we have to fight battles alone.
Breaking Free from Pornography & Other Addictions
Let’s be real—many men struggle with pornography, and overcoming it alone feels impossible. Research from the Barna Group shows that 68% of church-going men and over 50% of pastors admit to watching porn regularly. It’s an issue that thrives in secrecy but loses its power when brought into the light. If you’ve tried to quit on your own, only to fall back into the same patterns, I want you to know—you’re not alone, and there is hope.
How I Can Help
I’ve been working with men who want to break free from addiction and step into real accountability. If you’re tired of fighting alone, let’s talk. Our conversations are completely confidential, and to make it easy for you to start, I’m offering 50% off your first session if you mention this post.
📞 Call or text me at (231) 499-9069
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