You Don’t Have To Remain a Victim

Bad things will happen in life.  We live in a broken world and you will get hurt, you will be victimized at some point – maybe it has already happened to you.  Bad things happen but you don’t have to remain a victim.  Humans have the ability to grow and change and overcome.

Henry Cloud, c0-author of the award winning book Boundaries say this about a winner mindset and a victim mindset:

There is a big difference between a victim and a winner. Victims see things the way they are and think they will always be that way, because uncontrollable forces are acting upon them. But winners have a different attitude, especially about failure and trying something new to see if it works better. They know one of the most important things we can ever know: they know that they can learn.

You can learn new skills and I can help.

A couple can learn to communicate.

A depressed person can learn to overcome depression.

A parent with a child out of control can learn how to discipline effectively.

A person without a career can learn a new skill.

A person with a weight problem can learn how to lose weight and keep it off.

A person who gets a bad job review can learn to do better.

A person with a pattern of failed relationships can learn the relationship skills that are needed.

A person who picks bad people over and over can learn why that happens and how to spot the bad ones.

Want more insight?

Consider a few consulting visits with me (in the office, over the phone or in a Zoom Conference Room).  I can help you move forward and learn new skills in life.

Email:  [email protected]

Call:  231-499-9069

What are you doing to gain ownership of your life?  Leave a comment below, I’d love to hear what is working for you.